I'm bi. I am hot for men and women, though in what ratio literally depends on what side of the tent I woke up under that morning. Sometimes it's mostly gay, sometimes straight. Mostly I fantasize about a mmf 3 (or more)-way. More to the point , I've got romantic feelings for both. As I've said for 10 years now, "I'm a perfect Kinsey 2 thru 5".
I sort of agree with Andrew. I do think that bisexuality does exist, but I do feel it's rare.
Now, of course, this perspective is coming from a female so what I am about to say should probably be taken with a grain of salt, but: I also feel as if, like being pagan or... Whatever else is new and taboo, there are a lot of folks who wanna be bi 'just because it's hip'. I find this a lot more with young women, however, who feel that if they put 'I'm Bi' in their bio or what have you, then they will more than likely seem especially hot to guys who like the 'girl on girl' action. I don't consider this true bisexuality. I consider it a party favor.
I've dated both men and women. I didn't use the relationships with women as a means of attracting a guy or as a way to make later boyfriends happy. I suppose I just really wanted to find the perfect person for me based on what they were like on the inside, gender aside. Now, I don't know if you would consider my instance 'true bisexuality' either, but I do know it is possible to have an attraction to both genders aside from what's 'fun' at the moment.
Take what you will from that :)
As with everything; this is not a black and white issue. I voted 'I don't know' simple because the other choices are so polar.
I think true physical bisexuality does exist but that it's significantly rarer than what is popularly believed.
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